Keeping options open dating Reallifecam like

by  |  28-Aug-2017 21:08

Reactive behavior can leave you feeling victimized so why not let go of that dating dead-end and expand your horizons with an open mind and heart?Start by reflecting on why you react – patterns from past relationships, issues from childhood, fear of (fill in the blank).Given the choice, would you prefer to make an iron-clad, no-turning-back decision, or one you could back out of if you needed to? I understand why it might, but bear with me - because it isn't.

Or, if we do bother to think about them, we think about how lousy they are compared to our clearly superior and awesome choice.

Most of us have had to make a choice between two colleges, or job offers, or apartments.

Instead of being on your best behavior and hiding the real you, share your likes, dislikes, and needs with potential partners.

By being true to yourself, you give the person sitting across from you the opportunity to date the real you and decide if that’s someone they’d like to keep seeing.

Those who were told that they could change their mind and return it for a different poster in the next 30 days reported being less happy with their poster than those who had to pick a poster and stick with it.) Why does keeping our options open make us less happy?

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