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When you wait until marriage to have sex, you preserve some of your innocence — there’s a whole world of experience that you can still look forward to — and as a result you carry more of your idealism into your adult life.

When you take that extra idealism — that heroic vision for who you can be and what you can achieve — and combine it with your grown-up ability to execute and comprehend, you can do truly great things (if you don’t let the voices of convention talk you into giving up first).

These are the qualities of a nice person, a kind person, a loving person.

Somebody with a big, strong heart that will stay untainted even as the hearts of those around them are poisoned.

But there’s a catch: This desire to do great things with your life — your ravishing hunger for depth and meaning — is a burden as much as it is a blessing.

You will carry it around with you at all times, like a chip on your shoulder.

Take away a child’s favorite toy and put it on a high shelf, where he can see it but not reach it. For the next phase of that child’s life, he will do everything in his power to get you to give him that toy back. Now think of that child as a young adult, and that toy as true love.

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